Respected Hakeem SAHAB ASLAM U ALIKUM! I got many benefits by trusting ALLAH. I have a strong belief that the thing which is written in your fate will come to you without asking and the thing which is not in your fate can never come to you. I kept this thought in every part of my life due to which I got what I wouldn’t be able to get otherwise. I made this rule not to ask for clothes, footwear etc from family that I want this, I want that rather I left it on ALLAH. I believe that the thing which will be in my fate I will get that without asking so why to ask and make myself the slave of my wishes. Trust me! Compared to my siblings my things are always best. They always have problems in their clothes, sewing though it is of their choice. This is what you call self power and connection with ALLAH. In the same manner in my in-laws home as well I get things without asking, if you have trust in Allah then you can get the thing that your heart wants. One mistake that several women possess is the fault in their thinking and mentality; if they overcome this mentality they would be able to get many benefits. Whenever we are busy and have responsibilities we impose our entire burden on SALAH and recite the SALAH OF 30 minutes in 15 minutes and make our 15 minutes work elongated into several hours. I tested it many times that whenever I make haste in SALAH due to any work then that work is elongated manifolds and takes even more time. In the same manner whenever I do something and AZAN starts and I continue with the work then that work always go wrong. For example while milking the goat if AZAN starts and I do not answer it properly then goat will spilt all milk and if I properly answer the AZAN then I get greater amount of milk. In the same way when my brother comes to pick me from the hostel and I deliberately shorten my ZUHUR SALAH, my brother would definitely be one or two hours late rather if I offer SALAH properly then my brother would always be on time. In a nutshell my observation is that if from 24 hours we serve 3 hours in our daily SALAH then remaining 21 hours will go great. Every work will go with ease and difficulties will be removed. But we are such fools that we waste those 3 hours of SALAH in worldly affairs and still our affairs are not settled but they get worse.
If we will give priority to world over religion then that time would come that ALLAH will increase our needs and worldly affairs will elongate for us and time would be shortened. Today we all are facing this situation; from dawn to dusk we are engulfed with dealings of earning money, worldly affairs and we always complain of time shortage. The reason is that we have made this world our destiny and religion as need so this system is also going against us. It is commonly heard that this WAZIFA is very long, I cannot do it on the contrary we can spend whole day in worldly affairs.
My third observation is that by praying for parents blessings start coming in this life before hereafter. Parents usually pray for their children but those prayers which can be a source of happiness for parents have great effects. It not only makes your hereafter but this world as well. The day I started reciting this DUA “OH ALLAH HAVE MERCY ON MY PARENTS AS THEY CARED FOR ME WHEN I WAS YOUNG”. It gave me peace of heart. Readers! Include this prayer in your prayers and try to fulfill the desires of parents; Allah will fulfill your desires. IN SHA ALLAH
